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Hi! We’re your hosts Emma and Fin! We’re a married couple in our late thirties and we’ve been exploring non-monogamy in different ways since nearly the beginning of our relationship more than twenty years ago. But, this podcast isn’t about us…
We strongly believe there isn’t a “right way” to be non-monogamous or even that non-monogamy is better or more evolved than monogamy or any other relationship style. Every week we interview people from across the spectrums of gender, sexuality, and relationship style to learn from their incredible and powerful personal stories.
Each episode is a unique perspective and personal story… Pick one that sounds interesting and give it a listen!
We hope that by sharing the amazing journeys of those who are redefining and pushing the limits of what’s possible in relationships that we can show people that they’re not alone and inspire us all to embrace our true selves so that, together, we can open minds and live authentically without shame.
Episodes

Monday Jul 06, 2020
Monday Jul 06, 2020
We're honored to welcome Ruby Johnson, co-founder of Poly Dallas Millennium, to moderate our first panel discussion. As she mentions, this is not a race 101 discussion. While it is targeted towards the Black community, it is an invaluable resource for anyone who finds it. The amazing and accomplished panelists discuss difficult topics, share vulnerable stories, and do it all while weaving in humor and laughter. It's a very real conversation with four powerful friends.
Thank you again to Ruby Johnson, Charita Marie, Dr. Justin Clardy, and of course Jhen for sharing their voices and experiences with us.
See photos and more details of all our guests by checking out the Show Notes!
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https://www.normalizingnonmonogamy.com/

Wednesday Jul 01, 2020
Ep 132 - Marla Renee Stewart
Wednesday Jul 01, 2020
Wednesday Jul 01, 2020
Marla's story and message are incredible, you do not want to skip this episode. She is a professional sexologist, intimacy/relationship/sex coach, speaker, and author. She is the owner of Velvet Lips, a sexuality education company, as well as Contract Liberation, a company focused on research for non-profit groups. As a Lecturer at Clayton State University, she teaches Sociology and Women’s and Gender Studies. As the Co-Founder of the Sex Down South Conference, Marla aims to bring diverse groups together to learn and share their experiences in the essence of being authentic and fostering sexual liberation across communities. Marla has studied human sexuality for over 19 years, has educated over 20,000 people in over 13 years, given over 400 workshops, and have served over 100 clients in her private practice, all around the world. She has had her influence in the media, as well; she has written over 200 articles, featured in over 20 magazines and books, and has been on over 50 podcasts and independent television shows. She was featured on Netflix’s Trigger Warning with Killer Mike and VH1's Love & HipHop Atlanta. In addition, she also sits on the Boards for SPARK Reproductive Justice NOW! and is on the Community Advisory Board of the Diverse Sexualities and Research Education Institute. She also recently co-wrote her first book, The Ultimate Guide to Seduction & Foreplay (2020) with Dr. Jessica O’Reilly... Seriously, do not miss this one!
See photos and more details of all our guests by checking out the Show Notes!
Click here to join our July 23rd Virtual Meet and Greet!
Check out the all new inclusive and diverse AltPlayGround!
https://www.normalizingnonmonogamy.com/

Wednesday Jun 24, 2020
Ep 131 - We Gotta Thing (Mrs. + Mr. Jones)
Wednesday Jun 24, 2020
Wednesday Jun 24, 2020
Mrs. and Mr. Jones from the We Gotta Thing podcast join us this week to share their story. "But can't I just go listen to their story on their podcast?" you might be asking yourself... You could. But rumor has it that we have never-before-discussed top secret material. These are of course just rumors. However, what we do have is a fantastic discussion that goes much deeper than their story. Our recommendation is you listen to this episode AND go listen to their podcast. Everybody wins, especially you.
See photos and more details of all our guests by checking out the Show Notes!
Click here to join our June 25th Virtual Meet and Greet!
Check out the all new inclusive and diverse AltPlayGround!
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Wednesday Jun 17, 2020
Ep 130 - Felice + Bill: Round 2
Wednesday Jun 17, 2020
Wednesday Jun 17, 2020
Felice and Bill are back for round 2! We originally talked to them in Episode 42 and they're back to give us an update on how things have changed for them in the last year and half. They discuss confronting an STI earlier in the year and how Coronavirus has forced them back into monogamy and impacted their relationship as well as their relationships with others. Enjoy!
See photos and more details of all our guests by checking out the Show Notes!
Click here to join our June 25th Virtual Meet and Greet!
Check out the all new inclusive and diverse AltPlayGround!
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Monday Jun 15, 2020
Ep 129 - Chloe
Monday Jun 15, 2020
Monday Jun 15, 2020
Chloe's story is powerful in so many ways. After opening their relationship at the end of 2019, Chloe and her fiancé ultimately ended up parting ways. Starting to explore swinging and polyamory exposed some underlying issues that they each needed to work on individually. Chloe takes us through the journey of discovery and the work she has done on herself over the last few months as she looks forward to how she wants to model future relationships.
See photos and more details of all our guests by checking out the Show Notes!
Click here to join our June 25th Virtual Meet and Greet!
Check out the all new inclusive and diverse AltPlayGround!
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Wednesday Jun 10, 2020
Ep 128 - Mel + Carson
Wednesday Jun 10, 2020
Wednesday Jun 10, 2020
Mel and Carson have been slowly dipping their toes in and back out of non-monogamy for the last couple of years. It has been a slow build up sprinkled with a few speed bumps and lots of learning for them both. This is a great episode for anyone who is in the early stages of exploration or perhaps has been exploring things but it hasn't gone as perfectly as they thought it would. These two take us through all of the work they have done together and how they have come out the other side ready to keep exploring.
See photos and more details of all our guests by checking out the Show Notes!
Click here to join our June 25th Virtual Meet and Greet!
Check out the all new inclusive and diverse AltPlayGround!
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Wednesday Jun 03, 2020
Ep 127 - Perla + Chad
Wednesday Jun 03, 2020
Wednesday Jun 03, 2020
Today's episode is powerful in many ways. Perla and Chad are very vulnerable with us and share many of the challenges they have overcome in the last few years since they started opening up their relationship. Not only do they share their stories, they break down many of the feelings and motivations behind their actions in a way that is really helpful for anyone who may be struggling with similar issues. It's a fantastic discussion and we hope you take a lot from it.
See photos and more details of all our guests by checking out the Show Notes!
Click here to join our June 25th Virtual Meet and Greet!
Check out the all new inclusive and diverse AltPlayGround!
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Wednesday May 27, 2020
Ep 126 - Irene
Wednesday May 27, 2020
Wednesday May 27, 2020
Irene shares a powerful and moving story with us this week. She has been exploring non-monogamy for a few years and initially got into it towards the end of an emotionally challenging relationship. As you will hear, she has really found herself since she started the journey and has come to be in an incredible place in life and stronger than ever before. She also talks a bit about raising her son as a single mother and how she exposes him to love and openness in a healthy and appropriate way. We hope this story is as moving for you as it was for us. Enjoy.
See photos and more details of all our guests by checking out the Show Notes!
Click here to join our very first Virtual Meet and Greet!
https://www.normalizingnonmonogamy.com/

Wednesday May 20, 2020
Ep 125 - Laura + David
Wednesday May 20, 2020
Wednesday May 20, 2020
Laura and David share an experience with us that has never been discussed on the show... Simply put, they had a baby together. It's definitely much more complicated than that. You'll see. They have now been exploring consensual non-monogamy together for about five years and have watched their dynamic evolve in many ways over that time. They are incredible people that we're honored to call friends and they have an amazing story. You won't be disappointed if you have a listen. Enjoy!
See photos and more details of all our guests by checking out the Show Notes!
Click here to join our very first Virtual Meet and Greet!
https://www.normalizingnonmonogamy.com/

Wednesday May 13, 2020
Ep 124 - Michelle + Steve
Wednesday May 13, 2020
Wednesday May 13, 2020
Michelle and Steve never really closed their relationship after they got together. Steve had explored non-monogamy in the past but this was Michelle's first time even hearing about it but it made so much sense to her that she was game to give it a try. After a few bumps, things smoothed out and they found their groove. Over the last few years they have been exploring various forms of swinging and polyamory all over Europe and have been having a blast. Enjoy!
See photos and more details of all our guests by checking out the Show Notes!
Click here to join our very first Virtual Meet and Greet!