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Hi! We’re your hosts Emma and Fin! We’re a married couple in our late thirties and we’ve been exploring non-monogamy in different ways since nearly the beginning of our relationship more than twenty years ago. But, this podcast isn’t about us…
We strongly believe there isn’t a “right way” to be non-monogamous or even that non-monogamy is better or more evolved than monogamy or any other relationship style. Every week we interview people from across the spectrums of gender, sexuality, and relationship style to learn from their incredible and powerful personal stories.
Each episode is a unique perspective and personal story… Pick one that sounds interesting and give it a listen!
We hope that by sharing the amazing journeys of those who are redefining and pushing the limits of what’s possible in relationships that we can show people that they’re not alone and inspire us all to embrace our true selves so that, together, we can open minds and live authentically without shame.
Episodes

Sep 30, 2020
Sep 30, 2020
1hr 11 min
This is a fantastic discussion tying together infidelity, a desire to live life to the fullest, and incredible growth and communication... Sophie and Brandon are in their mid thirties and have been married for four years. This is the second marriage for both of them and they have been "intentionally non-monogamous" for about three years. The way they share how they have overcome obstacles and how they have grown together is beautiful. We are incredibly grateful to them for sharing such a vulnerable and powerful story with us.
See photos and more details of all our guests by checking out the Show Notes!
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Sep 23, 2020
Sep 23, 2020
1hr 16 min
This is a wonderful discussion about self-discovery, boundaries, standing up for yourself, and communicating with compassion. Leah is a self-proclaimed relationship junky but only recently dipped her toes into non-monogamy after accidentally matching with someone on a dating app. She didn't read the whole profile... Oops! She ended up going on a date with him and his partner anyways and had a great time but ultimately things didn't work out. She details the whole story and shares with us how her approach to relationships has shifted since this experience. Additionally, a few years ago after getting ghosted she created an Esther Perel Discussion group on Facebook that has grown to almost 12k members.
See photos and more details of all our guests by checking out the Show Notes!
Click here to join our October 16 Virtual Meet and Greet!
Check out the all new inclusive and diverse AltPlayGround!
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Sep 16, 2020
Sep 16, 2020
1hr 19 min
Our first interview with a throuple! Woop woop! Not just any throuple either... These three are incredible humans and have such an amazing attitude towards life and relationships. It's no wonder they all fell in love with one another! Rah and Tom have been married for about 10 years and open for most of their relationship. About a year and a half ago they met Mel. None of them were looking for a serious relationship, yet, here they are today happier than ever. This is a fantastic discussion about how people's approaches to relationships can evolve and more than that, it's a heartwarming and beautiful story. Enjoy!
See photos and more details of all our guests by checking out the Show Notes!
Click here to join our September 19 Virtual Meet and Greet!
Check out the all new inclusive and diverse AltPlayGround!
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Sep 9, 2020
Sep 9, 2020
1hr 10 min
See photos and more details of all our guests by checking out the Show Notes!
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Check out the all new inclusive and diverse AltPlayGround!
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Sep 2, 2020
Sep 2, 2020
1hr 24 min
This episode is such a ball of positive energy and good vibes that it should be titled "How to make Covid your Biatch!" Basically, it's like this: Christy is married to David and in a long term relationship with Jason... David is also in a long term relationship with Rebecca... Jason and Rebecca aren't technically in a relationship but hey, who doesn't like to have a little fun? Oh yeah... They also all moved in together at the start of the pandemic and then had some family join them. So, if you are in need of a little something to brighten your day and to give you some inspiration, look no further. Enjoy!
See photos and more details of all our guests by checking out the Show Notes!
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Aug 31, 2020
Aug 31, 2020
58 min
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Aug 26, 2020
Aug 26, 2020
1hr 13 min
Zach is an incredibly kind and loving human who is full of joy and ready to share it with the world! He’s only 30 but has had a wildly diverse array of experiences… He’s traveled the world, accidentally joined a French Poly Cult in Paris, couch surfed his way across Europe using OKCupid, and even founded a university sanctioned orgy club during his time at Yale. This list only scratches the surface of what we dive into during our discussion with him… Do NOT miss this one!
See photos and more details of all our guests by checking out the Show Notes!
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Aug 19, 2020
Aug 19, 2020
1hr 18 min
Jane and Jay are in their early-ish forties and have been exploring swinging for the last seven years. The call themselves social swingers and for them it’s all about making friends and going with the flow. They talk with us about how much of a miracle it is that they actually ever swing with anyone because of how bad they are at picking up on vibes from others. But their communication has evolved since they started their journey! Jane also documents their adventures in a super fun, sex-positive, and body-positive weekly comic strip called Swingfessions. We love the vibes these two are putting out into the world and highly recommend you check them out!
See photos and more details of all our guests by checking out the Show Notes!
Click here to join our August 22nd Virtual Meet and Greet!
Check out the all new inclusive and diverse AltPlayGround!
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Aug 12, 2020
Aug 12, 2020
1hr 27 min
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Check out the all new inclusive and diverse AltPlayGround!
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Aug 5, 2020
Aug 5, 2020
1hr 10 min
See photos and more details of all our guests by checking out the Show Notes!
Click here to join our August 22nd Virtual Meet and Greet!
Check out the all new inclusive and diverse AltPlayGround!
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