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Hi! We’re your hosts Emma and Fin! We’re a married couple in our late thirties and we’ve been exploring non-monogamy in different ways since nearly the beginning of our relationship more than twenty years ago. But, this podcast isn’t about us…
We strongly believe there isn’t a “right way” to be non-monogamous or even that non-monogamy is better or more evolved than monogamy or any other relationship style. Every week we interview people from across the spectrums of gender, sexuality, and relationship style to learn from their incredible and powerful personal stories.
Each episode is a unique perspective and personal story… Pick one that sounds interesting and give it a listen!
We hope that by sharing the amazing journeys of those who are redefining and pushing the limits of what’s possible in relationships that we can show people that they’re not alone and inspire us all to embrace our true selves so that, together, we can open minds and live authentically without shame.
Episodes

Wednesday Jul 10, 2019
Ep 73 - Whitney Miller
Wednesday Jul 10, 2019
Wednesday Jul 10, 2019
Whitney Miller is the former Miss USA 2012 but she's all about destroying stereotypes. One of her goals has always been to redefine what it means to be a pageant girl. This has taken the form of being a professional wake surfer, exploring Brazilian Jiu Jitsu and MMA, as well as backpacking around the world on her own after a breakup. Beyond that, she has been in a publicly open relationship with her fiance, Aubrey Marcus, for over seven years. She has a fantastic and empowering outlook on life and relationships and she shares it all with us!
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https://www.normalizingnonmonogamy.com/

Wednesday Jul 03, 2019
Ep 72 - Christy + David
Wednesday Jul 03, 2019
Wednesday Jul 03, 2019
Christy and David took their relationship from monogamous to swinging to total non-hierarchical polyamory in a relatively short amount of time. They share with us the difficulties that come with putting their marriage on an equal level as other relationships. At the same time, the joy they experience together is amazing and they wouldn't have it any other way. Have your mind blown, give it a listen.
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https://www.normalizingnonmonogamy.com/

Friday Jun 28, 2019
Ep 71 - Jess + Shawn + Cait + Ken
Friday Jun 28, 2019
Friday Jun 28, 2019
This one is really just a Friday fun day episode. We were able to get all four of the guests you heard this week together in one place for a wild ride of an interview. Really, it's just basically us asking them questions while they make out with one another. It's a super fun chat and we hope you enjoy!
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https://www.normalizingnonmonogamy.com/

Wednesday Jun 26, 2019
Ep 70 - Cait + Ken
Wednesday Jun 26, 2019
Wednesday Jun 26, 2019
Cait and Ken, the other half of the quad that we talked with on Monday joins us today to share their side of the story. Yet another case of swingers turned poly. Maybe the two aren't so different after all! These two are a ball of fun and we are super excited to let them share their story and get their perspective.
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Monday Jun 24, 2019
Ep 69 - Jess + Shawn: Round 2
Monday Jun 24, 2019
Monday Jun 24, 2019
Shawn and Jess come back on 35 episodes later to share what's changed in their lives... Spoiler alert! It's kind of a big transition they have made. We talk about what happens when swinging turns into polyamory, even if you don't think it ever could! They also share a lot of insight on the benefits of forming friendships around the lifestyle. Give it a listen and also go back and check out episode 34. You'll be happy you did and so will we.
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https://www.normalizingnonmonogamy.com/

Wednesday Jun 19, 2019
Ep 68 - Swinging Cajuns (Sara + Pete)
Wednesday Jun 19, 2019
Wednesday Jun 19, 2019
Our biggest plot twist yet and another unconventional start to non-monogamy! We absolutely can't recommend this episode enough. Sara and Pete are the authors of a blog called the Swinging Cajuns where they document their journey together. Their marriage has survived, and is now thriving in the face of an infidelity that would normally destroy a couple. They have a ton of insight for anyone who might be working through a similar situation and for the swinging community in general. Thank you to both of them for sharing such an important and difficult part of their lives with us, and with you.
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https://www.normalizingnonmonogamy.com/
https://www.swingingcajuns.com/ or on Twitter @MCajuns (Sara) and @SwingingCajuns (Pete)

Wednesday Jun 12, 2019
Ep 67 - Donna + Alex
Wednesday Jun 12, 2019
Wednesday Jun 12, 2019
Ever considered that swinging can keep you young?! You may after this interview! Donna and Alex have been married for 32+ years and have been non-monogamous in different ways for over 20 of them. They share how they got into it and how it has kept them feeling younger than all their friends even after crossing into their 60's. It's an amazing listen for people of all ages and we're so happy to see the love between these two having so much energy!
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https://www.normalizingnonmonogamy.com/

Wednesday Jun 05, 2019
Ep 66 - Claire Travers
Wednesday Jun 05, 2019
Wednesday Jun 05, 2019
Claire is a professional humanitarian aid working specializing in emergency response to natural disasters, mainly in Sub-Saharan and Eastern Africa. She is also an academic author and speaker focused on the intersections between ethics and aid. She manages to do all of this while balancing multiple polyamorous relationship spread across multiple continents and languages. Her story is truly unique and inspiring and we hope you'll have a listen. More information on how to contact Claire can be found at the show notes link below.
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Wednesday May 29, 2019
Ep 65 - That Couple Next Door (Kay + Jay)
Wednesday May 29, 2019
Wednesday May 29, 2019
The legendary creators of the podcast "That Couple Next Door" and generic home improvement store bucket connoisseurs, Jay and Kay, share a brief summary of their 3-5 year (or whatever) journey into swinging and hotwife adventures. They also give a little update on the current state of their show and where they plan to go from here. These two are amazing podcasters and people and they are a riot to talk with. If you don't laugh 14% of the time you're listening, we will issue you a full refund. Enjoy!
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Wednesday May 22, 2019
Ep 64 - Molly + Greg
Wednesday May 22, 2019
Wednesday May 22, 2019
After 19 years of monogamy, Molly and Greg started to slowly open up their marriage. Molly said she had never been great at the monogamy thing and asked Greg if she could explore having an online relationship with a guy she met on Fetlife... It turned into much more and led them to re-evaluate their entire approach to their marriage. Have a listen to hear how they navigate polyamory, kink, and having kids!
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https://www.normalizingnonmonogamy.com/